So most of you know that I had Cara-Mia before I was married. The only contraceptive I used then was condoms. And if there wasn’t one handy well …. I did fall pregnant. When me and Heine got married we didn’t even discuss contraceptives as we knew we wanted to start a family immediately. After Ciane’s birth we started discussing a few things but I naively thought that if I breast feed exclusively we only have to start worrying when he is about six months. Well before then I fell pregnant again. Although I don’t regret having another baby the timing was a bit soon. 13 months difference is very small, they could be twins for that matter. Any case this time I want to be more prepared. As soon as baby is out there has to be a plan. In my ideal dream world we would follow natural family planning. Where I check when I ovulate and then don’t have sex on those days. But being a busy stay at home mom I don’t even know my Monday from my Friday. I never know wha